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Ellis writes in his book on anger that our irrational beliefs are what upsets us most. Especially in our relationships. If we have convinced ourselves that we must have sincere love and approval almost all the time from virtually all the people who we find significant in our lives, then we are in for a rude awakening. Because apparently, that is not the way life works. Having raged for those who…

To start the Personal Creativity Management revolution, we’re only opening Prolific to 100 people (71 slots already taken!). It’s now open to the public with an exclusive cohort of unique Founding Member slots. The cost is one dollar a month, for life.As beta users of our software platform: *You get lifetime access to the app with no restrictions. *You can use the full version of our platform, and every…

Evolution is the process of many tiny incremental changes. And it’s a beautiful thing. We suddenly find a new purpose for one or more of our parts, but without significantly diminishing the old function, and it feels like magic. Darwin’s work on natural selection says that among organisms, there is no such thing as better or worse, smart or dumb, good or bad, strong or weak. There is only…

There are people in this world whose victimhood is their primary sense of identity. They are looking for goblins in every shadow. Protesting every experience as a violation of their personal freedom. But when we try to help or console them, they get annoyed. Sometimes horribly defensive and insulted. As if to say, hey now, don’t take away my tragedy. I’m planning on dining on that for a while….

When asked if it was possible for someone to rehab on their own, my favorite television doctor made the following observation. Treatment is not a solo process. It’s an interpersonal experience, and it must be done with other people. His insight, though, is not exclusive to people with substance abuse problems. Because even if we have never taken a drink or done a drug in our life, it’s still…

There’s an employee review for a telecommunications company that has the following title: Are you killing yourself for someone who would replace you in a week? Reading this kind of remark makes me sad. Because people who give some company the best years of their life are not heroes, they’re martyrs. There is nothing noble about trying to please someone who will never be happy with you no matter…

Nobody knows anything. We’re all just guessing. Humans are poor historians and even poorer predictors of the future. In a world where people have falsely predicted armageddon over two hundred times, not to mention the coincidence that the average person stores between five and ten pounds of feces in their colon, maybe it’s time to admit to ourselves that we are all full of shit. And so, let’s stop…

Prolific, my new software as a service company, was founded upon a simple principle. Personal expression is a bedrock human need. Bettering our relationship to creativity is a moral imperative of our species. But most people stand in an unfortunate relationship to their own creativity. They have few ways of quantifying or speaking sensibly about it. Hence, the launch of Personal Creativity Management. It’s just my life philosophy in…

The best decision we can ever make is to stop choosing. To allow the countless other available choices to become irrelevant and accept our path. Bonheoffer, the renowned theologian and political dissident, gives the following advice in his book of daily devotions: The question about whether or not we have made the right beginning no longer needs to be asked, for it would drive us into fruitless fear. Our job…

Startups tend to be volatile and chaotic. There isn’t one in town that wouldn’t find that gift of clarity valuable. Because it fosters execution. If you’re the kind of person who leaves things more organized than you found them, it’s amazing what kind of output that generates for the team. Hyde writes that one of the reasons ideas are treated as gifts is because they accomplish the task of assembling a…