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Energy is interactional currency. If you want to lead the people around you, pay attention not only to what you do that gives you energy, but what you do that gives others energy. I learned this lesson busking in the park. Turns out, playing and singing music as loud as you possibly can in a public space with amazing acoustics gives people energy. It’s the coolest thing. As folks walk…

I believe in a few things. First, I believe in contributing meaningfully to the growth and well being of every person connected to me. Second, I believe the greatest contribution you can make to someone’s life is to help that person love themselves more. Here’s what might work: Instead of encouraging people to become more of what they are, empower them to become what they never thought they could…

I recently did an extensive interview with Travis Jenkins from The Entrepreneur’s Radio Show. We dug deep. The topics we explored include: How to make a name for yourself, creating a business around your brand, making connections, the writing process, finding balance between brand and business, speeding up your success and dealing with stress. Oh, and I also sang a song about hippopotamuses. You can stream the interview here, download…

My mentor used to have a saying: They are never going to do it, but they will love that you did it for them. I’ve found that mantra be true in almost every area of business, from public speaking to sales and marketing to client service to mentoring relationships. The trick is keeping your antennas up for new ways to leverage it. A few months ago, I was doing…

Sentences are my spiritual currency.  Throughout my week, I’m constantly scouring and learning and reading and inhaling and annotating from any number of newspapers, blogs, online publications, books, articles, songs, art pieces, podcasts, eavesdroppings, random conversations and other sources of inspiration. Turns out, most of these sentences can be organized into about eleven different categories, aka, compartments of life that are meaningful to me. And since I enjoy being a signal tower…

I’m an identity junkie. Few things fascinate me more than the formation, nuance, complexity and absurdity of why people are the way they are. But something I’ve recently realized is, identity is a luxury item. Not everyone is lucky enough to become who they are. There are several variables, most of which are based on pure chance, that keep people’s true identities from being known to the world: There’s…

Dogs can teach us a lot about motivation. I’m reminded of my favorite commercial of all time: Bacon! Bacon! Where’s the bacon? I smell bacon. It’s gotta be bacon. There’s only one thing in the world that smells like bacon and that’s bacon! There it is! It’s in the bag! Chewy, yummy smokey bacon! Oh boy oh boy oh boy, num num num num num, it’s bacoooooooon! That’s motivation….

Being prolific doesn’t mean doing everything fast. In fact, when it comes to the principal act of writing, that is, physically putting words on a blank page, I actually work quite slowly. Which seems unlikely, considering I’ve published two books per year, every year, for the last decade. But you have to understand, writing is only one step of the creative process. Before showing up at the page, there’s a…

When I have a headache, I take aspirin. Thirty minutes later, the pain usually goes away. But when my mind starts going to dark places, conjuring up horrible thoughts that are far too ugly and desperate and destructive to be okay with me, I snap out of myself like a werewolf turning back into a man and wonder, jesus christ, did I really just think that? Yes, yes I…

Sentences are my spiritual currency.  Throughout my week, I’m constantly scouring and learning and reading and inhaling and annotating from any number of newspapers, blogs, online publications, books, articles, songs, art pieces, podcasts, eavesdroppings, random conversations and other sources of inspiration. Turns out, most of these sentences can be organized into about eleven different categories, aka, compartments of life that are meaningful to me. And since I enjoy being a signal tower…