We can’t walk the path for them

People are going to do what they are going to do. 

Even under
the threat of consequence. 

Even if they know full well that it’s bad for them. 

Even despite any attempts to control their behaviors and emotions through
pleasing, scaring or shaming. 

People are going to do what they are going to do. 

It sounds quite cynical and fatalistic and bleak. But it’s not necessarily a
bad thing. Perhaps an invitation. To come to terms with the fact that we can’t
control people. And to surrender our attempts to manipulate situations,
feelings and emotions. 

I once read an interesting leadership book written by two pastors. They
admitted that one of the hardest lessons they learned as family and marriage
counselors was that expressing disapproval or anger about somebody’s bad
behavior is not going to make it stop, it will only make people stop talking
about it. Their issues will go underground, and you will have lost the
opportunity to inspire them create real, lasting change. 

And so, it all boils
down to choice. Because choice gives people control, which gives them freedom,
which leads to happiness. Who are we to take that away from someone? 

Look,
everyone is fighting a battle we know nothing about. Everyone is struggling
with some issue and needs the opportunity to explore it on their own schedule.
And so, their pain doesn’t need to become our next project. 

People are going to
do what they are going to do. 

Beecher once said that liberty is the soul’s
right to breathe, and when it cannot take a long breath, laws are girdled too
tight. 

His governmental proverb also applies to our relationships. 

If we really
want to help the people we love, we should give them oxygen, not opinions. 



LET ME ASK YA THIS...

Whose path are you trying to walk for them?
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Scott Ginsberg

That Guy with the Nametag

Author. Speaker. Strategist. Inventor. Filmmaker. Publisher. Songwriter.  

scott@hellomynameisscott.com

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