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You should just know why I’m upset
Harvard’s business journal published a fascinating article written by a professor of psychology. Markman writes that when something has gone wrong at work, people blame lack of communication. The assumption is that greater access to information is the solution. But before you leap into action, and in the process create a lot more work for yourself, let me suggest that you think of the complaints about communication problems as the canary…
It can’t be measured, but that doesn’t mean it doesn’t matter
How long does one nametag last? For a question people ask me so often, there’s no good answer. Calculating the average shelf life of a single sticker is basically an unsolvable equation. There are simply too many variables to consider. First, there’s the issue of waste. I reuse my nametags on multiple shirts during the week, since it conserves paper. And so, there’s no way to properly track each…
What we really want to create for ourselves
A commonality among unhappy people is, they don’t pursue their values with sufficient intensity. They continuously fail to live up to their own ideals. And without that foundation of true nature, it becomes very difficult to build a fulfilling life. Everything feels like an uphill battle. Turns out, though, that when our ambitions are married to our highest values, that becomes the positive driving force that enables us to…
The only thing there’s just too little of
One of my favorite things in the world is telling people that I love them. Whether it’s a friend, relative, coworker, my wife, or a complete stranger; and whether it’s in person, over the phone or via text or email, few acts make me feel more human and alive that expressing love, from my mouth to another person’s ears, every single day. Because if you think about it, that…
What’s your currency?
Here is perhaps our society’s most widely debated aphorism. Can money buy happiness? There are thousands articles, studies, books research papers, message boards, speeches, even organizations dedicated to arguing it one way or another. But what if we’re asking the wrong question? What if we’ve all been measuring the wrong currency? Because in my experience, although money may not make you happy, being happy may increase your chances of…
How could this mentor me?
Since high school, I’ve been lucky enough to have numerous influential mentoring relationships. The amount of time, money and energy these mentors have saved me is immeasurable. It’s proof to me that mentoring is more than just a relationship, it’s an inheritance. But the piece most people miss about this exchange is, mentors don’t always show up in human form. When you come from a curious constitution, searching out…
The yawning, glitchy black hole
Black holes have a gravitational acceleration so strong, that they destroy everything that falls into them. Whether it’s the remnants of giant stars, electromagnetic radiation, or the clouds of interstellar dust and gas, nothing makes it out of a black hole alive. Hawking proved that even if someone did jump into a black hole, and their mass energy was returned to our universe, it would be in a mangled…
What would be the most evolutionarily advantageous?
Heliotropism is a biological term that describes the motion of flowers or leaves in response to the direction of the sun. If you’ve ever noticed plants turning and growing toward the light, that’s called the heliotrope effect. What’s fascinating is, human beings apparently took a page from the plant bible. Cameron writes in his book about positive leadership that the tendency in all living systems is to move toward positive energy…
What relational energy can you add to the system?
My friend sits on the board of a nonprofit in the community solar industry. Recently he hosted an informal industry event at his home so people could learn more about the organization and emerging challenges and opportunities within the clean energy space. After he welcomed everyone to the event, he took a few minutes to allow people to introduce themselves by stating their name and what role they play…
Force yourself to find a weapon to battle your antisocial tendencies
Being the only person the room wearing a nametag makes me feel special, rebellious, creative and powerful. These feeling are the principal motivation for have continued my experiment for half of my life. But if suddenly it was no longer just me, if one day everyone starting wearing nametags, that would be probably fine with me. If it meant sacrificing a certain amount of my positive feelings to elevate…