Proud of having our own feelings about the world

As men, we are trained from an early age
that silence is manly. 

That no matter how sad we are or how much pain is
coursing through our veins, it’s our job to sit there stoically and bleed all
over our clothes. 

Masters wrote an insightful book on masculine power and fulfillment that summarized this gender
trend perfectly. 

Men overvalue performance and the appearance of having it
together. That’s why so many men take pains not to appear soft, as softness in
a man is also commonly equated with sexual failure. Softness is the failure to
stay hard.

This is something that resonates with me, as a man who has always
cried at movies, songs, plays, weddings, letters, books, speeches,
advertisements, television shows, intimate conversations and documentaries about
animal odd couples. 

All of these expressions of human beauty turn on the
waterworks within seconds. 
And it’s always been something people shamed me for.
Friends, family members and strangers. To the point that trying not to cry
became a bit of a superpower. 

But as an adult, something has finally occurred
to me about crying. 

We can be proud of having our own feelings about the world.
We can be proud of knowing what we’re feeling while we’re feeling it. And we
can proud of being able to both contain and openly express our sadness. 

certainly better than trying to keep our sadness pent up inside where it can
quietly fester into a mental illness. 


What are you still afraid to feel in front of others?
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Scott Ginsberg

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